Courtship--The rules of Marriage

Source:Indiareport
Marriage is known to be an eternal bliss and courtship period is a sweet lane that leads to the wedding bells. Thinking of your fiance can surely give you sleepless nights in courtship phase. However, marriage is often called as bonding of two families with the association of the couple. Here are some timeless tips to pour into your marriage the pleasure and merriness. Go on to date your fiance or fiancee and also try What To Do On first Date.

1.   Assurance—, As life is not always bed of roses, thorns are attached to it; living together and removing these thorns together is the most important. And it begins before your courtship. Make sure that you are mentally, physically and emotionally, and financially mature enough for marriage. Courtship phase is right time to get the same assurance from your partners.

2.   Play a Know-Me-Quiz—
It is a game just devised to know a person better and express yourself in a healthy way. It brings some exciting changes in your relationship.  Play it on phone or on an online chat. Try to share your likes and dislikes during courtship phase. And, learn to adjust with each other’s bad habit. Together, make a list of what to do and not to do after marriage. You can also play truth and dare.

3.   Decent Display of Affection—
Roses, gifts, cards are common and important too. Flirt with your partner.  However, it’s good to be naughty sometimes, hold her hand at the most schmaltzy moment in a romantic film. Simple “I love you” is magical during courtship phase. Whisper these magical words into the ears of your partner.  During courtship phase, some naughty yet decent talks go a long way in creating excitement for marriage. Give a warm kiss on forehead and let the things go on their own then. Don't fail to comment on a change of hairstyle or a new outfit.

4.   Share Your Feelings—
Know as you are firm with your decision, courtship period is a time to plan everything about your new family. Talk about intimate things and concrete dreams like honeymoon destination, your family planning, future kids, your career plans...etc. Start exchanging the dreams of desire and intimacy. Limit your expectations and reveal your must-to-have expectations decently (try to change must-to have into good-if-have-but-no-must). Don’t impose them on your partner.

5.   Arrange for a Family Trip—
This will help to understand each other personally and even the family. You can even have it on the occasions like birthday of any of the family members, marriage anniversary of your parents or in-laws. Make it a small gathering of just the two families. Remember to compliment his or her mother on her culinary skills.

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